Wednesday, December 3, 2025

A 30th Birthday Party

Got a birthday coming up and it's hard to believe that his "Birthday Dance Party" was 44 years ago. I guess that means I'm 74 this week. 

So I came across this flyer for this party in that old box of "stuff" on the 3rd floor I've been going through recently.

I remember that 30th birthday party very well. We had a very large crowd show up at the Pastime Lounge on Grant Street for it on December 5th 1981. It was a Saturday night. The music for the party came through the bar's sound system from the sound booth where I was playing some mixes I made for the event. 

We wanted to have a party in a bar somewhere I we went around and talked with the folks at a few of them. We didn't want to rent a special event space somewhere because we really didn't have the money for it. Those rental spaces were expensive. We just wanted to go to a regular bar somewhere but we wanted to be able to control the music.

We also didn't want some fancy bar. A dive bar was preferrable. I did talk with a few places on Elmwood but that wasn't going to work. We also really wanted to do it on a Saturday night. I remember checking out a few bars on Grant street. They definitely fit the dive bar description.

I would end up working at the Pastime Lounge for five years.1982 to 1986. I had a lot of fun spinning records there and booking local bands. I even bartended a little bit... a very little bit.

The owner at the time was Bobby's father and mother. Bob worked there spinning records on Friday nights. That was their busy night and Bob's mother cooked a popular fish fry that night. Saturday night was always a slow night which is why Bob's father gave me the OK to come in with a party and play the music too.

Becky and I would have a few more parties at the bar including our annual 60's party and a couple of after art opening parties. I played the music for those parties and we had a good crowd. It was soon after that the family hired me for every Saturday night and eventually I also worked some other nights too.

In that old box of "stuff" on the 3rd floor I found lots of flyers for the Pastime Lounge that I made to promote the local bands playing on our stage and for the nights that I was the DJ playing music.

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